Two people were studying in a small, stuffy room in a university library. One person wanted the window open, one person wanted it closed. Instead of focusing on solutions, (whether the window would be opened or closed) they concentrated on needs and resolved the problem by coming up with another alternative- opening a window in the next room. This provided fresh air for the person who wanted it
When people get emotionally escalated, they are fundamentally different people than when they are calm.
Adrenaline flows faster
Strength increases by 20%
The liver pumps sugar into the bloodstream
More oxygen is demanded from the heart and lungs
Veins become enlarged
The rational “thinking” part of your brain can’t perform as well
“This is an emotional condition
Hearing + suspenseful waiting = Listening
“True human sincerity, true transparency…is a rare and difficult thing; and so much of it depends on the person who is listening to us!
When it comes our turn to listen, which of these are we?
Effective listening involves three main skills: Paying Attention, Following, and Reflecting.
Attention is to listen with your whole body.
What other people say or do may be a stimulus for our feelings, but never the cause. Whenever someone communicates negatively, we have four options:
sense our own feelings and needs
sense the feelings and needs hidden in the other’s negative message
Judgments, criticisms, diagnoses and interpretations of others are all alienated expressions of
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If, on the other hand, you have ever felt pierced and heart broken by the spoken
Or Why I Am Still Excited About Being a Healthcare Professional.
Many of us wear multiple hats during the day, both in our personal and professional lives. One hat I frequently wear is called the “Holder of Hope.”
Underneath its brim, I stand with clients and look into the abyss. Call it depression, trauma, chronic pain, anxiety, grief, psychosis, spiritual warfare, or even the
Did you know that about 38% of adults and 12% of children use health care approaches developed outside of mainstream Western, or conventional, medicine; or that over a decade ago (imagine what it would be today!), the total visits to CAM (Complementary and Alternative Medicine) providers exceeded the total number of visits to all primary-care physicians?
Among those who have used one or
Psychoanalysis as a part of the work I do has always held a sort of creative tension for me. On the one hand, I love nothing better than a deep exploration into the experience of being human. On the other hand, I feel a deep responsibility to honor my clients' time, commitment, and resources by helping them set and achieve the goals that brought them to my door. Plus, to be perfectly honest,
May is Women's Health Month!
Each week we'll be sitting down with one of our practitioners to discuss topics of interest in the health & wellness industry.
Aline Talmage, LCSW, MPH joins us this week!
What aspects of your practice do you believe relate in particular to women's health?
I started my career working in women's health and it didn't surprise me when recent, public health
Free yourself from unconscious conditioning. Respond authentically, instead of react, to circumstances in your life. See your patterns with clarity and understanding to create true freedom.
With some simple practices and perspectives you can dramatically improve the quality of all your relationships. Anyone can learn to create all new levels of connection and